There are days when I want to give up. Days when I repeat statements in my mind that sound something like…
“If only I…”
“I wish I had (or had not) done…”
“Why didn’t I do this when…?”
What do all of the above statements have in common? They keep your mind focused on the past.
Your past sufferings should serve as learning lessons that teach you how to live your best life in the present moment. After a painful experience has taken place, focus on what you learned about yourself, accept the event for what it was, then let go and move on.
Don’t attempt to re-live or re-work past events in your thoughts. It doesn’t matter how many times you picture yourself behaving differently in your mind… the outcome will never change. There is absolutely no point to this type of thinking.
The past can never be undone. Everything that happens in life exists to either make you weaker or stronger. You are the one who decides to be weak or strong. Choose to be strong.
I’ll be happy when…
I wish I could…
I’m going to ___ when I finally get ___.
What do all of the above statements have in common? They keep your mind focused on the future.
When we dream about the future, we create links between our current self and the projected idea of the self we would like to become.
Your mind creates visions and goals, because it knows that they are attainable. The only thing getting in the way of achieving your goals is your regret of the past, your inability to accept the present, and your fear of the future. In other words, the only thing getting in the way of your life is you. You can click on that sentence to Tweet it!
In my video, I explain where my inner strength stems from and how I came to realize the importance of taking action in the “now.”
Life is certainly not simple and some people do have more obstacles and challenges than others.
Take each day as it comes, leave your past behind you and be mindful of your thoughts. When you think about the past, acknowledge your thoughts, learn from them and move onto ideas that will lead to better actions today.
If you can’t take action right now, accept that as a fact and move on. Never dwell.
When you think of the future, break out your desires into actionable items for the next five years, three years, one year, one month, one day. Once you have a calendar of events, focus only on the day that you are on. Of course this is not easy to do. Everyone is a work-in-progress. Take manageable steps and don’t beat yourself up if you’re not going as fast as you’d like.
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